5 Ways to Improve Yourself to Find Your Dream Dom!
Are you having trouble finding your Dream Dom?
Don't feel bad--you are not alone!
The secret is to stop searching for the perfect Dom and start making yourself the perfect submissive.
When you improve yourself, the chances of you finding the perfect partner greatly increase.
Below are 5 quick tips to help you become a better submissive:
1) Read published books on the D/S Lifestyle
This means stop reading profiles and bogus online blogs and start reading real D/S books.
Contact us for a full list.
2) Set custom goals that help you build your confidence
Decide what 3 areas of your life you want to improve; make an action plan and get to it! If you need a Mentor to help you with this, let us know.
3) Join an established Submissive Training Institute (STI)
Whether you decide to join RHS or look for another STI near you (search Fetlife.com), you need to commit yourself to a real program.
4) Begin Fantasy Journaling
Carry a notebook with you everywhere! Jot down everything that turns you on. Be honest with yourself about your fantasies and needs.
5) Make better online dating profiles
Have your Mentor critique your profiles. Learn ways to weed out potential partners that save you time and frustration.
Many submissives think they need to find their "Dream Dom" before they even begin exploring--this cannot be further from the truth. First, improve yourself as a submissive and then let your Dom naturally come to you!
